Journal #11

So my grandpa finally decided to have surgery! its a big stress remover.. let me tell you. At first he wanted to just do radation but because he lives in a small town the hospital didnt give radation he had to go ahead with the surgery. Which im glad that is what i wanted him to do. i felt like radation was not getting rid of the problem it was just helping the problem, and now that he is having surgery he can be done and its going to be over with. the doctor said that he would be out of the hospital the next day and within 3 weeks he should have his kidneys back. thats the only thing my grandpa is worried about he just doesnt want to have to wear diapers again. because he having prostate surgery he has to relearn how to use his kidneys again that is why he has to wear diapers. Ok so when my grandma made the date of his surgery she put it on Monday the 16th... which really stinks because that is the weekend that my friend from minnesota is coming up and i dont want to drag her down to iowa and have her deal with my grandpa having surgery.... she is very close with my family so its not like she would care i just dont want to put her through that. She is suppose to be coming up to have fun not worry about my problems. Also that tueday we have tickets to the bulls game that we really want to go and that we were taking my friend amanda to. so that means that on monday we have to drive down to Iowa stay for my grandpas surgery.. probably stay the night down there and then come back up on tuesday.. and she leaves Wendesday in the morning. I just hope everything works out this is alot of stress that is getting put down on me and this is the last thing that i need when i have alot of finalls coming up. its really getting the best of me.